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The Voice of A Child of Divorce
ByParnell, Michels & McKay Law Offices June 9, 2014September 16, 2025
This video titled. “Dear Mom and Dad: Voice of a Child of Divorce” touches on one of the major problems associated with parental disputes in divorces. Certain divorces can become very bitter and emotional affairs, and often parents seek to “win over” their children to their side. This can have catastrophic consequences for the parties’ children. One divorce Judge in Minnesota offered profound remarks on what happens when a child is put in the middle of a divorce and asked to choose. Judge Michael Haas, now retired, said:“Your children have come into this world because of the two of you. Perhaps you two made lousy choices as to whom you decided to be the other parent. If so, that is YOUR problem and YOUR fault….
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Collaborative Law Getting More and More National Recognition
ByParnell, Michels & McKay Law Offices May 7, 2014September 16, 2025
CNBC recently featured an article on collaborative law being applied in divorce cases. As the author, Deborah Nason, states, “Divorce will never be a walk in the park, but it doesn’t have to be a traumatic process, either.” She addresses the major problems that can be created by litigating a divorce to conclusion in Court. For a lot of people, the cost of a divorce is a major factor. According to the article, litigating a divorce can cost as much as three times or more than a collaborative divorce. As we have discussed in this blog before, Collaborative Divorce is a process that involves each party having their own lawyer. The agreement includes a clause in each party’s contract with the lawyer that if the…
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Collaborative Law In The Civil Arena: A New Age of Conflict Resolution
ByParnell, Michels & McKay Law Offices December 9, 2013September 16, 2025
Parnell, Michels & McKay has long championed the role of collaborative law in the divorce setting, and we offer one of the best and most experienced collaborative law divorce attorneys in the State of New Hampshire in Catherine McKay. However, the gains made in collaborative law in the family arena are being noticed by other attorneys who practice in the civil areas. Employment disputes, business disputes, probate disputes, and other areas of civil practice seem like potential great areas for collaborative law to continue to develop. Parnell, Michels & McKay supports the New Hampshire Collaborative Divorce (NHCD), and through that great organization, we have been introduced to potential new areas of law where collaborative practice can be utilized. In fact, the New Hampshire Bar Association…
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Collaborative Law: Avoiding The Pitfalls of Litigation
ByParnell, Michels & McKay Law Offices October 19, 2013September 16, 2025
In family law, litigation can have very negative effects on familial relationships. In a divorce, it causes parties to become entrenched in their positions, and they end up spending thousands upon thousands of dollars fighting in Court. Often, we have family law clients in divorce cases that don’t want to ratchet up the emotions by pursuing litigation and ask about alternative options that do not involve going to Court. The best option available is Collaborative Divorce. It is a process that removes a lot of the stress, time, and money spent on litigation. Instead, parties go through a series of meetings until the process is concluded with a final agreement. The first step is agreeing to do collaborative law in the first place. At Parnell,…
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New Hampshire’s New Child Support Guidelines
ByParnell, Michels & McKay Law Offices August 29, 2013September 16, 2025
New Hampshire made substantial changes to the way we calculate child support in the Granite State. Generally, the way child support is calculated is to take the person owing child support’s net income and then take a percentage of that net income as child support. Traditionally, this was 25% for one child, 33% for two children, and 40% for 3 or more. With the new changes, these figures can change fairly dramatically. Here is the link to the new child support guidelines tables. As you can see, gone are the round numbers we used previously, and instead, we have more defined figures based on each parties’ income. The more you make, the less percentage is taken out of your income. The problem that was being…
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What Is Income for Child Support? Recent N.H. Decision Uses Broad Definition
ByParnell, Michels & McKay Law Offices September 9, 2012September 16, 2025
We are often asked as attorneys what figure the Court uses as income for the purposes of calculating child support. RSA 458-C:3 defines “Gross Income” as “All income, from any source, whether earned or unearned…” and then goes on to include specific sources of income like wages, salary lottery or gambling winnings, etc. This is an easy concept for most people to understand. You work, you receive salary or wages, and those are calculated for child support purposes. However, what if you received hundreds of thousands of dollars from a life insurance policy? Well, the New Hampshire Supreme Court recently answered that question with a “yes”. The case, In the Matter of Larocque and Larocque, looked at whether life insurance proceeds the father received from…
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Federal Appeals Court Rules Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) Is Unconstitutional
ByParnell, Michels & McKay Law Offices June 29, 2012September 16, 2025
The Defense of Marriage Act, also known as “DOMA”, is a federal statute that was passed in 1996. The act states that when it comes to federal laws and regulations, marriage is defined as between a man and a woman only. The effect of this law was to limit the ability of same-sex couples from receiving social security survivor benefits and prevent them from being able to file joint taxes together. The law also stated that other states do not have to recognize same-sex marriages in other states if their state did not recognize them. The ruling focused on these denials of benefits to same-sex partners and involved a type of legal analysis in constitutional cases called the “rational basis” test. This is the lowest…
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Divorce Hotels: The Netherlands Unique Approach To Dissolving A Marriage
ByParnell, Michels & McKay Law Offices June 19, 2012September 16, 2025
It’s a very difficult situation when two people are divorcing. The process can take a lot of time and money, and only lead to more frustration. It is not an easy process but is one that the Netherlands is taking a new approach to resolving. They have introduced “Divorce Hotels”. The divorcing couple checks in on Friday and leaves on Sunday with a divorce agreement. How do they do it? Well, they have a team of mediators, psychologists, and lawyers that get involved to help facilitate the final divorce agreement. The cost can range from $2,500 to $10,000 depending on the complexity of the assets and whether there is a fight over custody of the children. The parties then sit down and try to resolve…
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Modifying Your Parenting Plan In New Hampshire: Case Law v. Statutes
ByParnell, Michels & McKay Law Offices May 29, 2012September 16, 2025
In 2009, a decision was reached by the New Hampshire Supreme Court In the Matter of Muchmore and Jaycox. The decision was based on the modification of parenting plan statute, titled RSA 461-A:11. At the time Muchmore was decided, the statute provided that only a substantial change in circumstances could justify a change to the parenting plan. In Muchmore, the father petitioned for a change in the parenting plan because it was in the best interests, he posited, of the minor child. The lower Court decided that a modification was appropriate, and granted his request. Our New Hampshire Supreme Court reversed, citing a strict application of the statute. The result was frustration by legal minds around New Hampshire, as the bar to hurdle for a…
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Divorce In New Hampshire: Important Documents
ByParnell, Michels & McKay Law Offices April 29, 2012September 16, 2025
As a local Judge likes to say during First Appearances in a divorce matter, “You are all likely going through the worst time period of your lives. We’re here to try to figure out how you move on, and what you need to do to make that process easier.” It’s true, divorce means a marriage is ending, and that is a difficult process to be involved in. Yet, as statistics show, Divorce has become much more commonplace and living in a divorced home has seemingly become more of the norm. However, the process is still draining, and most people don’t know what to expect from the divorce process. In a divorce, one of the married persons files a Petition for Divorce, and in a typical…
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