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    Remember to Practice 12 Days of Co-Parenting Calm

    I came across a wonderful blog called “12 Days of Co-Parenting Calm” written by Deb Gilman and posted on the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals website. You can find that blog here:  12 Days of Co-Parenting Calm. As I read this blog, I am reminded that the holidays are supposed to be fun and joyful for children! When parents are going through a divorce/separation or are already divorced, it can be difficult to remember this important fact. Adding stress or chaos to your children’s lives by engaging in conflict with their other parent removes the fun and joy the children should be experiencing over the holidays. As you go through the holidays this year, please try to remember the importance of calm. Your children will benefit…

  • What Happens to Our Marital Home if We Divorce?

    In many divorce cases, the party’s main asset is the marital home. Therefore, one of the questions we hear the most in family law is “what’s going to happen to my home?” For some, this is a purely financial question. For others, there is a great deal of emotional attachment with concerns about the party’s children and their own future living arrangements. For most, the parties generally agree that there should be equal division of the equity, but the question is how that is accomplished. This blog post will cover the parties’ options in dividing the marital home. Option 1: Sell the Home This is the “cleanest” option and allows both parties a fresh start, and may provide the most financial return to each party….

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    Divorce: A Personal Perspective

    With almost 50% of all marriages in the United States ending in divorce or separation, most people you encounter will have one ‘crazy’ family story or another. Sadly, when I was 13 years of age, my parents decided it was time to end their marriage and get a divorce. At the age of 13, I did not fully understand why they were leaving each other and the circumstances around it. Nothing too bad was going on, in reality, they just weren’t in love with each other anymore and wanted to separate. Of course, they had their moments, but from what I have seen throughout my life, most divorces are very difficult.At such a young age, my parents did not expose me to the legalities surrounding…

  • Effective Co-Parenting After Separation or Divorce

    Understanding the Goal of Co-Parenting When parents separate or divorce, one of the most important challenges they face is learning how to successfully co-parent. While the romantic relationship may end, the parenting relationship does not. Effective co-parenting allows children to maintain strong, healthy relationships with both parents while providing the stability and consistency they need to thrive. At its core, co-parenting means working together to make decisions in the best interests of the child. This includes coordinating schedules, communicating about school and medical issues, and maintaining appropriate expectations between households. Even when parents disagree, focusing discussions on the child’s well-being rather than past conflicts can make cooperation easier. Communication Is Key Communication is one of the most critical components of successful co-parenting. Parents should aim…

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    The New Hampshire Family Division’s New Mandatory Disclosure Rules: How To Find and Understand The New Requirements

    In every family case involving divorce, parenting, annulment, civil unions, and more, the Court is now requiring each party to disclose documentation to the other party. The documentation includes tax returns, pay stubs, and health insurance information among other general financial documentation. Yet, the important part of these new rules is that they are mandatory. If you do not disclose, then you will face penalties. A party might not be able to offer any document into evidence, or even talk about that evidence at trial if the document was required under the new rule. A party may not even be able to conduct additional discovery (information/document requests) or file any discovery motions seeking information if they did not comply with the rule. What does this…

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    Collaborative Law: Avoiding The Pitfalls of Litigation

    In family law, litigation can have very negative effects on familial relationships. In a divorce, it causes parties to become entrenched in their positions, and they end up spending thousands upon thousands of dollars fighting in Court. Often, we have family law clients in divorce cases that don’t want to ratchet up the emotions by pursuing litigation and ask about alternative options that do not involve going to Court. The best option available is Collaborative Divorce. It is a process that removes a lot of the stress, time, and money spent on litigation. Instead, parties go through a series of meetings until the process is concluded with a final agreement. The first step is agreeing to do collaborative law in the first place. At Parnell,…